Downsides of Dating a Sugar Daddy
So, we have seen some of the perks of being involved in the sugar daddy-sugar baby relationship.
Well, yeah, dating older men for money can be so much fun and rewarding. But that does not mean there are no disadvantages to it.
Before you hop in that ride, think about these few points and decide if it something you can leave with or not.
1. You Might Suffer from too Much Control from Your Sugar Daddy
Meeting with the wrong person can be hell. These sugar daddies are usually top notch in their various fields and they want you to come with them to every party or event. Girl, you have got little to no opinion on this. You must be available when he needs you regardless of whatever you have going on outside of the sugar relationship. This is one of the discouraging factors especially for ladies who are very busy. Your sugar daddy gets to control virtually everything in the relationship – your look, the time to meet, the places to travel to, the events to attend, and on goes the list.
2. You Might Lose Some Friends
Some of us have really judgmental friends. If you are one of such, then brace yourself up as you may lose some of your close friends who disagree with your choice of ‘adventure’.
3. You May Develop Low Self Esteem
This is a long-term effect usually seen in sugar babies. The sugar daddy dating does not build your self-esteem, it decreases it instead. A girl who is controlled by an older man just so she gets money will have no confidence in herself or her abilities even after she quits the relationship. The longer you stay in the sugar relationship the worse it becomes.
4. You Can be Replaced at Any Point in Time
There is no ‘irreplaceable’ in the sugar relationship. Just like he picked you up at some point in life so he can pick any other girl. There is no commitment as such he is free to leave whenever he feels like it. He could also have other sugar babies and you have no say on this. He is in control, right?
5. Bad Reputation Among Friends and Family
Rumors spread like wildfire in summer. You might want to keep the arrangement dating secrete but when those flashy cars and designers start coming in without a job, there is no much secrete to be kept anymore. And we live in a judgmental environment with a lot of ‘holier than thou’ people, just get ready to put up with the bad reputation or better yet don’t hop in.
6. He May Never Get Married to You
This is the case in 95 of every 100 sugar daddy-sugar baby relationships. There are no strings attached - no emotion or commitment. So, it might never lead to marriage. Although there are rare cases when it does lead to marriage, your chances are slim. If you are looking for marriage, then this is not the type of relationship you want to get involved in.
7. You Are at the Risk of Being Physically and Emotionally Abused
These men are older and influential. They care less about how you feel or whatever you have going on. Meeting with the wrong sugar daddy could leave you damaged both emotionally and physically.
So check the odds before you dive in. Do not concentrate on the benefits only. Can you cope with the downsides?